I had the pleasure of attending a wedding shower for my friend’s fiancee this weekend. I have certainly become friends with her as well over the past few years, but he and I were friends long before they were a ‘we’. In fact, he and I were friends before I even met Edward.
Tall T and Miss S had known each other for years, but a few years ago they rediscovered each other. I knew she was the one when he would not stop talking about her…. It took him a long time to admit just how in love he was with her. Cute actually.
It has been a bumpy road for them.
She was diagnosed with a terrible illness, and they have worked together, and been through whole lot together. I worried, as I am sure they did, whether or not this would actually ever happen….
I was so angry when it happened…. I mean, here was this great guy who waited a long time for his “lobster”! For the one, who fills him with joy, and makes him happy, and truly appreciates him. And I worried that she would be taken away.
It just wasn’t FAIR!
When he called to tell me that she was on the mend, and that it looked like she would in indeed be around to give him hell for many years to come…
well… I cried like a baby. I am not ashamed to tell you, my faithful 5 readers, that I was hysterical. I also had to walk back into a classroom and talk to co-workers and students.
It was hard to explain that they were tears of joy.
note… I am getting teary as I write this….
I am thrilled for them. They are both just the most wonderful people you would meet, and that this fall they will get married….
grateful, elated and just plain old thrilled!
I couldn’t ask for a better match for Tall T. And Miss S is getting a wonderful man who really loves her.
Say a little prayer right now…. be thankful for all of you blessings, even if they are only a few in nature.
It has been a rough year for me, as you know… the last 15 months I have been sick, tired, depressed…. you name it. But when I thought of these 2, at least I could remember that I had a few blessings, no matter how bad it was.
I hope that you count your blessings, and inlcude all of us in your prayers…. Tall T, and Miss S… pray for many happy years for them… pray to remember your own blessings, even when its really tough to do so.
this is dedicated to Tall T and Miss S. May you have as much happiness as can be found in the world.
And may you be there to give each other hell for many years. I can’t wait to dance at your wedding…. and I can almost guarantee that I will be crying at your wedding… but I’ll bet there won’t be a dry eye in the house.
much love
XOXOXOXOXOXO